Helping Individuals with Autism Have a Happy Holiday Season
We all know that the holiday season can be a bit stressful, but for some neurodivergent individuals, stress is compounded by disrupted routines and overstimulation.
People with autism can experience joy in holiday traditions, says Deborah Bilder, MD, professor in the and the at 泫圖弝け of Utah 泫圖弝け. Awareness, preparation, and flexibility are key to enjoying this festive time of year.
Autistic people and 泫圖弝けren with autism face a few challenges during the holiday season, but their needs are really broad and are based on their abilities level, Bilder says.
Generally, it comes down to three major challenges, all of which can be offset with some preparation.
1. Change and lack of routine
For many people with autism, routine is crucial. If you can, try to keep your or your 泫圖弝けs schedule as typical as possible. Allow extra time to adapt to any changes in the schedule and work with friends and family members to manage expectations. If youre caring for a 泫圖弝け with autism, creating a visible schedule can help them prompt and prepare themselves, Bilder says.
Also important, she says, is ensuring adequate time for sleep.
Schedules will go awry, despite best intentions. It is absolutely critical that you preserve time for you and your 泫圖弝け to sleep. Whatever youre doing and wherever youre traveling, make sure you or your 泫圖弝け are back in time to get a good night's sleepbecause once sleep becomes compromised, everything else can fall apart more easily.
2. Overstimulation
Another common challenge for adults and 泫圖弝けren with autism is overstimulation. The holidays are filled with crowds, lights, songs, bells, and a host of other sensory triggers. You can offset some of this by planning to go out during less crowded times and packing items like sunglasses, earmuffs, and sensory toys ahead of time.
Planning ahead and finding a quiet space to take a break if the need arises can also reduce anticipatory anxiety for both parents and 泫圖弝け.
3. Stressful situations
Stressful situations will undoubtedly arise during the holidays, but there are a few steps you can take to help offset additional worry.
Wherever youre going this holiday season, ensure theres an area to quietly regroupthis can help individuals with autism feel safe and soothed before reintegrating. You can also bring a favorite book to help create distraction and snacks to avoid any food-related stressors.
Many autistic adults and 泫圖弝けren have cues that demonstrate stress or overstimulation. Understanding and recognizing these cues can help create a safe and enjoyable environment for everyone.
All that said, the holidays are, by nature, somewhat unpredictable. We all stray from our typical routines. Holidays bring about travel, new schedules, unfamiliar faces, and dramatic shifts in what and how we eat. Allowing for some flexibility can help people with autism enjoy the holidays instead of dreading them.
Most people with autism need their personal space, Bilder says. When it comes to holiday parties, its helpful to remember that you control your schedule. If you want to pop in, say hi, and leave, thats ok. Its important that no one feels trapped or uncomfortable.
Dont be afraid to reach out
If you or your 泫圖弝け need support this holiday season, dont be afraid to reach out. Do not hesitate to reach out to your 泫圖弝けs therapy, medical, and mental health providers when you need specific support or recommendations, Bilder says. We know the holidays can be a challenging time. The relationships and understanding you have developed with your provider all year long really makes a difference when emergent needs arise during the holidays.
You can also look for community support by searching for , Bilder says. There are also several online support groups and resources to help autistic adults or parents of 泫圖弝けren with autism, including , , , and .
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